高考英语作文对“人际关系”这一话题的考查,不外乎父母与子女的关系、师生关系、同学或朋友关系以及邻里关系,通常针对如何建立人际关系或影响人际关系的某一方面来命题,涉及信任、尊重、交流、倾听、友谊、感恩等子话题。如2008年高考英语江苏卷要求以“Being a Good Listener”为题,根据要点写一篇演讲稿;2009年高考英语安徽卷要求针对父母翻看孩子日记或书包这一现象写一篇演讲稿,分析原因,提出沟通方法。
与朋友:Friends are our treasures. A good friend is someone that lets us be ourselves and hopefully encourages us to be the best part of ourselves. How many times have they shared the joys and sorrows together with us? How many times have they offered help to us when we’re in need? In fact, without a friend, nothing much seems enjoyable.
与父母:Our parents should also be our closest friends. The relationship between parents and children has great influence on the life of both sides.
与老师:It is the teachers who give us knowledge, develop our ability, and put wings on us, with which we can fly towards our ideals.
与邻里:Just as a proverb says, “A close neighbor is better than a distant relative.”
诚信:We have to be honest with others and should always say what we mean. Lies will surely make people stay far away from us in the long run.
礼貌:We have to be polite and modest enough. If we are proud or rude in public, we can hardly win others’ respect, not to mention “friendship”.
无私:We must not be selfish. We should learn how to show concern for others.
有价值:We need to be valuable to the person we want to be friends with. We have to have something to offer other people, something of value which they are prepared to exchange for what they can offer.
主动介绍:Introduce yourself and talk to others so that they will know more about you. As your communication goes further, you’re sure to find much in common.
积极参与:Attend parties, sports events and special gatherings. In this way you and others will know more about each other.
大胆交流:Don’t be too shy. Voice your opinions so that others will know you are a person of thought.
真诚沟通:Make full use of your passion and kindness to bridge the gap between you and others.
过于胆怯:You might be a bit shy in the new surroundings.
过于敏感:You might be a sensitive person and worry too much about what people think of you.
过于内向:You might be too silent. However, silence only makes matters worse.
避免争吵:Try to avoid quarrels. Discuss and negotiate with your friends when your opinions differ.
善于倾听:Be a good listener while your friends are talking. Listening contributes to building up excellent relationships between people.
真诚待人:Be sincere to your friends, especially when you think they’re doing something wrong.
乐于助人:Be ready to help your friends whenever they’re in need.
例如山东卷的这道题,根据信件的形式和“帮助同学融入班级”这一主题,文章首先应符合英文书信的写作格式,正文则应根据“分析李明难以融入班级的原因”“提出建议”“陈述具体打算”这几个内容要点,从内容准备中选择合适的进行表达。例如,难以融入新集体的原因可能是You might be a bit shy in such new surroundings;提出的建议有:Silence only makes matters worse. Be brave and make full use of your passion and kindness to bridge the gap between us. As the communication between us goes further, we’re sure to find much in common;你具体的打算可以是:I will take you with me when activities are planned,等等。在此基础上,表达连贯、有条理就可以了。
针对来信中“Did I do anything wrong? What should I do to repair our friendship? What do you think a true friend should be like?”回复邮件。
I’m sorry to hear about your trouble. I have the same problem and I
Q1: Did I do anything wrong? （对这件事情的看法）
1. You told her that you weren’t interested in the movie telling her the truth. So it’s normal that she was angry with you.
2. I think your friend , but you might refuse her too
3. should be honest. Communication is the key to solve problems.
Q2: What should I do to repair our friendship? （提出合理建议，注意变换句型。至少两条建议。）
1. write a letter to her. show your honesty in the
letter and apologize to her. congratulate her on her success. You can also phone her. In this way, she will be pleased with you.
2. explain to
her that you are too busy to go with her. invite her to see a movie or anything she likes？When she is happy, say sorry to her. She might forgive you.
face to face and explain why you didn’t celebrate with her and what you had to do at that time.
4. to see a movie. If so, I think she will understand you.
Q3: What do you think a true friend should be like? （对“友谊”的认识）
1. a true friend honest and help you to face difficulties. “A friend in need is a friend indeed.” I hope you can solve the problem between you and Judy soon.
2. , a true friend should understand you and always be honest with you. You don’t
need to worry about making mistakes when staying with him or her because he or she will be patient with you and listen to you.
3. They can also accept some mistakes the
Hope my advice can help you. I’m